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THE JOURNAL

Essays on the unspoken work of being a person.


The Weekly Letter

A small, honest moment from each week. Delivered quietly on Sundays.

Let It Be Easy

Why do we resist ease?Many people resist ease because they equate struggle with success. Society conditions us to believe that if something isn’t difficult, it’s not valuable. But in reality, working with our natural strengths and letting go of unnecessary struggle often leads to greater success and fulfillment.


Meetings That Should Have Been Decisions

We need to talk about meetings. Not in a “could this be an email” way. That ship sailed and sank years ago.This is deeper. Stranger....


Rest Is Not a Reward

Why is rest important?Rest isn’t just about relaxation—it’s essential for brain function, creativity, and overall well-being. Studies show that taking breaks improves focus, prevents burnout, and enhances problem-solving abilities.


What We Leave Behind in Our 40s

You don’t always know it’s happening while it’s happening.The letting go. The shifting. The slow, almost imperceptible slide from one version of your life to...


The Courage to Begin Again

Why is it so hard to start again?Starting again is difficult because of fear—fear of failure, fear of lost progress, and fear of judgment. However, research shows that embracing a "fresh start effect" can increase motivation and make restarting easier. Small, intentional steps are the key to moving forward.


The Slow Burn of Real Confidence

The loudest people in the room aren’t usually the most confident.They’re just the ones who’ve rehearsed the performance. Confidence—the real kind, the kind that isn’t...


The Magic of Small Wins

Success isn’t about giant leaps—it’s about small, consistent steps. Learn why celebrating small wins builds momentum, creates confidence, and leads to lasting change. Plus, book and TED Talk recommendations for making progress every day.


Back to School for Grown-Ups

You feel it, don’t you? That strange mix of possibility and dread. The scent of pencils that haven’t been sharpened in decades. The urge to...


What If It Works Out?

We spend so much time preparing for the worst—what if we started expecting the best? Learn how to break free from negativity bias and reframe fear into possibility. Plus, book and TED Talk recommendations for a mindset shift.


The Productivity Hangover

It starts with a fresh planner. A clean page. Maybe a grid. Possibly a list of goals written in that same fine-tipped pen you save...