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THE JOURNAL
Essays on the unspoken work of being a person.
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The Archive · Page 5
On Plans, Power, and the Illusion of Control
There’s a particular kind of planning that isn’t really about productivity at all.It happens when you’re unanchored — when the ground feels slippery, or when...
The Art of Not Performing
There’s a version of me that lives online.She’s composed. Capable. Occasionally funny.She wears good sweaters and answers emails quickly and knows what she’s doing most...
When You’ve Outgrown Your Own Life
It doesn’t usually happen all at once. No fireworks. No dramatic undoing.Just a quiet shift. A vague restlessness. The creeping suspicion that you’ve built a...
The Season of Small Feasts
October always feels like a sigh. Not a sad one.Not a weary one.More like the exhale you didn’t know you were holding until the air...
Saying No Without a PowerPoint
There’s an art to saying no.Most of us haven’t mastered it.We’ve mastered explaining no.Justifying it. Softening it. Wrapping it in context and bullet points and...
Let It Be Easy
Why do we resist ease?Many people resist ease because they equate struggle with success. Society conditions us to believe that if something isn’t difficult, it’s not valuable. But in reality, working with our natural strengths and letting go of unnecessary struggle often leads to greater success and fulfillment.
Meetings That Should Have Been Decisions
We need to talk about meetings. Not in a “could this be an email” way. That ship sailed and sank years ago.This is deeper. Stranger....
Rest Is Not a Reward
Why is rest important?Rest isn’t just about relaxation—it’s essential for brain function, creativity, and overall well-being. Studies show that taking breaks improves focus, prevents burnout, and enhances problem-solving abilities.
What We Leave Behind in Our 40s
You don’t always know it’s happening while it’s happening.The letting go. The shifting. The slow, almost imperceptible slide from one version of your life to...
The Courage to Begin Again
Why is it so hard to start again?Starting again is difficult because of fear—fear of failure, fear of lost progress, and fear of judgment. However, research shows that embracing a "fresh start effect" can increase motivation and make restarting easier. Small, intentional steps are the key to moving forward.