Journal
A Costume for Every Life You Didn’t Choose
Halloween is for pretending.That’s the whole point. You get to be someone else for a night. A pirate. A ghost. A sexy hedge fund manager. Whatever you want. You slip...
A Costume for Every Life You Didn’t Choose
Halloween is for pretending.That’s the whole point. You get to be someone else for a night. A pirate. A ghost. A sexy hedge fund manager. Whatever you want. You slip...
The Ten Razors: A Field Guide for the Overthinkers
I’ve spent an embarrassing portion of my life staring at shelves. Grocery store shelves, metaphorical shelves, mental shelves. Olive oil or avocado? Stay or go? Work or rest? There’s a...
The Ten Razors: A Field Guide for the Overthinkers
I’ve spent an embarrassing portion of my life staring at shelves. Grocery store shelves, metaphorical shelves, mental shelves. Olive oil or avocado? Stay or go? Work or rest? There’s a...
Grief, Lightly Salted
Not all grief is loud. Some of it doesn’t cry.It doesn’t cancel your meetings or send flowers to your door.It just… lingers. Quietly. Like background noise you stop noticing until...
Grief, Lightly Salted
Not all grief is loud. Some of it doesn’t cry.It doesn’t cancel your meetings or send flowers to your door.It just… lingers. Quietly. Like background noise you stop noticing until...
On Plans, Power, and the Illusion of Control
There’s a particular kind of planning that isn’t really about productivity at all.It happens when you’re unanchored — when the ground feels slippery, or when the people and institutions around...
On Plans, Power, and the Illusion of Control
There’s a particular kind of planning that isn’t really about productivity at all.It happens when you’re unanchored — when the ground feels slippery, or when the people and institutions around...
The Art of Not Performing
There’s a version of me that lives online.She’s composed. Capable. Occasionally funny.She wears good sweaters and answers emails quickly and knows what she’s doing most of the time. She’s useful....
The Art of Not Performing
There’s a version of me that lives online.She’s composed. Capable. Occasionally funny.She wears good sweaters and answers emails quickly and knows what she’s doing most of the time. She’s useful....
When You’ve Outgrown Your Own Life
It doesn’t usually happen all at once. No fireworks. No dramatic undoing.Just a quiet shift. A vague restlessness. The creeping suspicion that you’ve built a life that fits… but barely....
When You’ve Outgrown Your Own Life
It doesn’t usually happen all at once. No fireworks. No dramatic undoing.Just a quiet shift. A vague restlessness. The creeping suspicion that you’ve built a life that fits… but barely....